{"id":34032,"date":"2026-01-18T14:01:06","date_gmt":"2026-01-18T14:01:06","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/cnews.topnewsource.com\/?p=34032"},"modified":"2026-01-18T14:01:32","modified_gmt":"2026-01-18T14:01:32","slug":"the-secret-nbc-memo-that-built-friends-how-living-single-was-the-original-blueprint-the-world-almost-forgot-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/cnews.topnewsource.com\/?p=34032","title":{"rendered":"The Secret NBC Memo That Built &#8220;Friends&#8221; \u2014 How Living Single Was the Original Blueprint the World Almost Forgot"},"content":{"rendered":"<p data-start=\"161\" data-end=\"741\"><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Before Central Perk became a pop-culture landmark and Ross and Rachel\u2019s will-they-won\u2019t-they dominated the 1990s, a different New York living room had already perfected the formula. In 1993, <strong data-start=\"352\" data-end=\"393\"><span class=\"hover:entity-accent entity-underline inline cursor-pointer align-baseline\"><span class=\"whitespace-normal\">Living Single<\/span><\/span><\/strong> debuted on FOX, created by <strong data-start=\"421\" data-end=\"462\"><span class=\"hover:entity-accent entity-underline inline cursor-pointer align-baseline\"><span class=\"whitespace-normal\">Yvette Lee Bowser<\/span><\/span><\/strong>. It starred six Black twenty-somethings navigating careers, love, and ambition inside a Brooklyn brownstone\u2014and it became the highest-rated sitcom in Black households. One year later, NBC launched <strong data-start=\"660\" data-end=\"701\"><span class=\"hover:entity-accent entity-underline inline cursor-pointer align-baseline\"><span class=\"whitespace-normal\">Friends<\/span><\/span><\/strong>, a show with strikingly familiar bones.<\/span><\/p>\n<p data-start=\"743\" data-end=\"1362\"><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Originally, Bowser\u2019s series carried the working title <em data-start=\"797\" data-end=\"807\">My Girls<\/em>. The pilot centered on the sisterhood of Khadijah James, Synclaire James, Regine Hunter, and Maxine Shaw\u2014played by <strong data-start=\"923\" data-end=\"964\"><span class=\"hover:entity-accent entity-underline inline cursor-pointer align-baseline\"><span class=\"whitespace-normal\">Queen Latifah<\/span><\/span><\/strong>, Kim Coles, Kim Fields, and Erika Alexander\u2014alongside Kyle Barker and Overton Wakefield Jones. In a 2025 episode of the <em data-start=\"1085\" data-end=\"1102\">ReLiving Single<\/em> podcast, Queen Latifah revealed she had even recorded a different, soulful theme for <em data-start=\"1188\" data-end=\"1198\">My Girls<\/em> before the show was retitled. When it became <em data-start=\"1244\" data-end=\"1259\">Living Single<\/em>, she reworked the sound with producer Def Jef, creating the hip-hop-infused anthem audiences remember.<\/span><\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1364\" data-end=\"1764\"><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">The controversy ignited with an offhand confession. In the early \u201990s, <strong data-start=\"1435\" data-end=\"1476\"><span class=\"hover:entity-accent entity-underline inline cursor-pointer align-baseline\"><span class=\"whitespace-normal\">Warren Littlefield<\/span><\/span><\/strong>, then president of NBC Entertainment, was asked which rival show he most wished he had. His answer: <em data-start=\"1577\" data-end=\"1592\">Living Single<\/em>. Not long after, NBC commissioned a new sitcom from <strong data-start=\"1645\" data-end=\"1686\"><span class=\"hover:entity-accent entity-underline inline cursor-pointer align-baseline\"><span class=\"whitespace-normal\">Marta Kauffman<\/span><\/span><\/strong> and <strong data-start=\"1691\" data-end=\"1732\"><span class=\"hover:entity-accent entity-underline inline cursor-pointer align-baseline\"><span class=\"whitespace-normal\">David Crane<\/span><\/span><\/strong>. That project became <em data-start=\"1754\" data-end=\"1763\">Friends<\/em>.<\/span><\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1766\" data-end=\"2202\"><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">The parallels were hard to miss. Both series followed six friends (three women, three men) living in New York. Both featured related leads\u2014Khadijah and Synclaire as cousins; Monica and Ross as siblings. Both relied on a \u201cneighbor drop-in\u201d engine\u2014Kyle and Overton across the hall in Brooklyn; Joey and Chandler in Greenwich Village. Even the thematic pitch\u2014friends as chosen family during early adulthood\u2014was already weekly canon on FOX.<\/span><\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2204\" data-end=\"2680\"><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Despite being produced by Warner Bros. Television, the two shows experienced radically different fates. <em data-start=\"2308\" data-end=\"2323\">Living Single<\/em> dominated its core audience for five seasons but never received the global marketing or syndication muscle that turned <em data-start=\"2443\" data-end=\"2452\">Friends<\/em> into a billion-dollar franchise. Cast members like <strong data-start=\"2504\" data-end=\"2545\"><span class=\"hover:entity-accent entity-underline inline cursor-pointer align-baseline\"><span class=\"whitespace-normal\">Erika Alexander<\/span><\/span><\/strong> have spoken openly about the erasure, and <strong data-start=\"2588\" data-end=\"2629\"><span class=\"hover:entity-accent entity-underline inline cursor-pointer align-baseline\"><span class=\"whitespace-normal\">T. C. Carson<\/span><\/span><\/strong> was famously written off after pushing for parity.<\/span><\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2682\" data-end=\"3005\" data-is-last-node=\"\" data-is-only-node=\"\"><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Today, as <em data-start=\"2692\" data-end=\"2707\">Living Single<\/em> finds new life on streaming platforms like Hulu, its legacy is finally being recalibrated. While <em data-start=\"2805\" data-end=\"2814\">Friends<\/em> won the ratings war, <em data-start=\"2836\" data-end=\"2851\">Living Single<\/em> built the blueprint\u2014proving that the modern \u201changing-out\u201d sitcom was pioneered by a Black woman telling specific stories that turned out to be universal.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Queen Latifah&#039;s &quot;Living Single&quot; Inspired &quot;Friends&quot;\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/J3qwRHb616I?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Before Central Perk became a pop-culture landmark and Ross and Rachel\u2019s will-they-won\u2019t-they dominated the 1990s, a different New York living room had already perfected the formula. In 1993, Living Single debuted on FOX, created by Yvette Lee Bowser. It starred six Black twenty-somethings navigating careers, love, and ambition inside a Brooklyn brownstone\u2014and it became the&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"pagelayer_contact_templates":[],"_pagelayer_content":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-34032","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/cnews.topnewsource.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/34032","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/cnews.topnewsource.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/cnews.topnewsource.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cnews.topnewsource.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cnews.topnewsource.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=34032"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/cnews.topnewsource.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/34032\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/cnews.topnewsource.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=34032"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cnews.topnewsource.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=34032"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cnews.topnewsource.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=34032"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}