The 2021 BET Awards, themed “The Year of The Black Woman,” reached a powerful emotional peak when Queen Latifah (Dana Owens) was presented with the prestigious Lifetime Achievement Award. Known for her unflappable strength and trailblazing presence, the “Queen” momentarily shed her formidable public persona, breaking down on stage as she paid tribute to the one person who wasn’t there to witness her crowning moment: her beloved mother, Rita Owens.
The Photo and The Unspoken Grief
The ceremony, held on June 27, 2021, honored Latifah’s trailblazing career across music and acting. Latifah took the stage accompanied by her father, Lancelot Owens, Sr., and, in a deeply touching and symbolic gesture, held a framed photograph of her late mother, Rita Owens. Rita, a revered high school teacher and Latifah’s closest confidante, had passed away three years earlier in March 2018 after a years-long battle with heart failure.
The Lifetime Achievement Speech Collapses
As Latifah began her acceptance speech, the emotion was palpable. She struggled to keep her voice steady, choking up as she looked at the photo of her mother. The image served as a powerful, silent representation of the person who instilled the “strong Black woman” identity she spoke of. She struggled to speak, stating: “I’m so extremely moved, I don’t even know what to say… There is no way that I could have had the parents that I was born to—my father, my mother, who is still so much in me—my family, I love you.”
A Mother’s Lasting Legacy
The raw display of grief resonated with the audience, confirming that even the most powerful public figure carries the private pain of loss. Latifah’s career-long celebration of Black women was directly inspired by her mother, whose influence extended into the public sphere. Latifah explicitly stated in her speech, “I’ve always celebrated the woman because I was raised by a strong Black woman.” She also publicly thanked her longtime business partner, Shakim Compere, for keeping a promise he made to her mother: “Shakim, I thank you right now for keeping your promise to my mother to always protect me.” Queen Latifah’s moment on the BET Awards stage was a deeply personal testament to a mother’s lasting influence, proving that Rita Owens’s spirit was the foundation of the very lifetime of achievement being celebrated.