On the chaotic night of December 29, 1995, Queen Latifah—then 25, a gold-certified hip-hop star fresh off her album Black Reign —and her best friend, Shakim Compere, were ambushed by two armed robbers in front of the Le Méridien hotel in Harlem, New York. The assailants pointed guns directly at Latifah’s head, screaming demands, and fired a shot just inches from her face. One bullet seriously wounded a third friend in the group. Latifah was robbed of her cash, jewelry (including a commemorative ring for her deceased brother), and, most painfully, the sense of invulnerability she once held as a “queen.”
The Worst Nightmare: Seeing the Black Barrel of Death
In her 2010 memoir, Put on Your Crown , and in a rare 2015 episode of Oprah’s Master Class , Latifah recounted the horror: “It was the worst night of my life. I thought I was going to die. I saw the black barrel of a gun right in the middle of my forehead, and the first thing that came to mind wasn’t fame or money—it was how devastating my mother would be if she lost another child after my brother.” The trauma leaves her shaken, robbed not just of possessions, but of her peace. The fear was a profound personal failure.
The Best Day: An Act of Kingdom Building
But just 48 hours after the robbery, a pivotal, life-altering moment occurred that turned that dark day into the “best day” of her life. While visiting her injured friend in the hospital, Latifah encountered another young woman of color who had also been shot during a robbery. This stranger had no insurance and no family and was crying over the astronomical medical debt. Latifah quietly paid her entire hospital bill, then sat down and talked with the woman all night. That singular act of compassion led to a monumental decision: “I’m not going to let fear win.” Three weeks later, on January 19, 1996, Queen Latifah and Shakim founded the Lancelot H. Owens Scholarship Foundation, named after her late brother. The foundation provides financial support and scholarships to young people, especially women of color, affected by street violence, and remains active today (2025), having awarded over $2.5 million in scholarships.
The Declaration of War: Set It Off
That same year, she filmed Set It Off , playing Cleopatra “Cleo” Banks, a gun-toting character who banks to escape the vicious cycle of violence and poverty. The role was not just acting; it was Latifah’s own declaration of war on the fear that had held her at gunpoint. The film became a massive success, grossing nearly $42 million (five times its budget), and stands as one of the enduring classics of black cinema. “The night I was held to my head was the night I truly understood who I was,” she said at the 2021 BET Awards Lifetime Achievement Award. “I was no longer the girl called Queen – I had to become a real queen. A queen who didn’t run away, but built a kingdom to protect others.” She transformed from a near-death victim into a resilient empire builder, creating Flavor Unit, a scholarship fund, and dozens of inspirational roles, proving that the scar from 1995 was her true crown. “That’s why,” she laughed, “I called the day I was held to my head the best day of my life. Because if it hadn’t been for that night, I would never have known how strong I was.”